At an event that I spoke at this year — I was sharing my experience as a freelancer during COVID-19 — someone “porn-bombed” the Google Meet where the event was being held.
That person did it at least three times, using different accounts, jumping into the call each time someone kicked him out.
He (I assume, based on voice) hijacked the screen share and had his computer open to Pornhub’s home page. Amidst the sea of shocked voices, he said one thing, “Why are you guys reacting this way? This is normal.”
And yes, sex is normal. Sex is part of our biology. Like eating and moving and growing, sex is a part of what makes us alive. But somehow, we see sex in a different light.
It’s something private, sometimes illicit, generally improper to talk about. Why?
Why is it okay to talk about it in some settings, but not others? Why is some sex “bad”, or “wrong”, or “over the top”?
What is it about sex that’s so incendiary? I mean, great sex is usually incendiary in a good way 😼… but what about the topic makes it so controversial?
It’s something I have on my mind a lot, so when I started my first podcast in 2016, I chose this subject that I have endless fascination for.
Almost five years later, I find myself exploring the topic of sex again. As a second season for the podcast, yes, but also, as a potential thesis topic.
Does this make me a pervert? Totally debauched?
Maybe, maybe not. But more importantly, does it matter? And so what?